Marriage is the perfect laboratory for human growth (marriage laboratory? hey! that’s the name of your blog!).
We grow. We change. We mess up. Its all part of the process. There are bound to be some growing pains. The important thing is that we keep trying. Maybe we water it at different times of the day, maybe we change it’s location. Maybe we go see a therapist to ask for watering and weeding help.
The point is that we need to EXPERIMENT to figure out just how to nurture our own plant to make it thrive.
Because every plant is different (we’re still talking about marriage here guys).
If your plant isn’t as green as your neighbor’s or as healthy as you’d like, don’t beat yourself up. Just start experimenting a little. Switch things up. Try a little of this, a little of that.
And set deadlines. Make it urgent