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1 Exercise To Crank Up Your Sexual Satisfaction

In her book Mating in Captivity, Esther Perel, a therapist, describes a simple tool to help couples understand each other better in a...

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struggles

Don’t Run From the Struggles You’re Facing

Mature Christians recognize and appreciate the sweet side of suffering. Teresa of Avila wrote, “Lord, how you afflict your lovers! But everything...
healthy

Healthy Habits For Each Day, Week, Month, & Year.

To develop a healthy marriage, it is important that two vital elements come together.     First, at some point you must draw a...
reasons

19 Reasons I Love My Wife.

On this date, 19 years ago, Kristen and I said, “I do”! Apart from following Jesus, I can’t think of a better...
significance

Search For Significance, Not Others’ Ideas of Success

Jesus called them together and said, “You know that the rules of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials...
mother-in-law

What To Do With A Difficult Mother-in-law

Q: My mother-in-law really has my husband under her thumb. How can I get her to back off without hurting either of...
promises

You Can’t Fulfill Your Promises, But God Can

“I didn’t marry you because you were perfect. I didn’t even marry you because I loved you. I married you because you gave...
bring sexy back

10 Ways to Bring Sexy Back. #8 Is 🥰😳🤯

Does your marriage feel “sexy”? Or does it feel “safe”? “Routine”? “Boring”? There’s nothing wrong with safe. There’s nothing even wrong with routine!...
go on a date

Make A Date To Go on a Date Today.

Are you and your spouse making time to “date” each other? Whether you’ve been married a few months or a few decades...
shame

Shame Doesn’t Get the Last Word In Your Marriage

I’ll never forget how I felt the first time I looked into the mirror after being date raped in college. I stood...
relational revelation

The Power of Inviting Your Spouse Into Your Hurt

As a Christian psychologist, I sometimes feel like I’m in the crosshairs of pastors and therapists who disagree about the road to...