“What’s important to you is important to me.”
That’s a great sentiment, but it is meaningless if your actions don’t support the claim.
It’s human nature to put far more time and energy into what I care about than what others care about. I don’t have to try to do this, it happens all on its own. Doing something different takes determination and effort.
Where can you be more about what she enjoys? How can you involve yourself more with the things that matter to her? How can you support her doing more of what she desires to do?